What does Islam say about Hijab?

Let us begin by clearing up the misconception that hijab is only to do with women. Although the term generally refers to the headscarf, this is merely the basic explanation. Hijab has many responsibilities for both men and women.

Women

For the believing woman she is obliged to cover her entire body from men except the mahrams as explained in the following ayah:

“And tell the believing women to reduce [some] of their vision and guard their private parts and not expose their adornment except that which [necessarily] appears thereof and to wrap [a portion of] their headcovers over their chests and not expose their adornment except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands’ fathers, their sons, their husbands’ sons, their brothers, their brothers’ sons, their sisters’ sons, their women, that which their right hands possess, or those male attendants having no physical desire, or children who are not yet aware of the private aspects of women. And let them not stamp their feet to make known what they conceal of their adornment. And turn to Allah in repentance, all of you, O believers, that you might succeed.” 24:31

We can derive from this verse that covering is not the only part of hijab but also how a woman carries herself. As explained by Ibn Kathir (a renowned mufassir of the Qur’an) the section talking about stamping of the feet relates to the women that wore anklets in ancient Arabia – they would stamp their feet for the anklets to ring as to attract attention.

From that he explains that wearing scent and perfume outside the home is prohibited lest men should smell it: “Every eye commits fornication and adultery, and when a woman puts on perfume and passes through a gathering, she is such and such” – meaning an adulteress. [Tirmidhi].

This is all part of modesty and nothing to do with oppressing women as the opposers of Islam will claim.

The covering of the head and body explained in the above ayah is accompanied the authentic narration, the prophet (ﷺ) spoke to Asma the daughter of Abu Bakr: “O Asma’! Once a girl reaches puberty, nothing of her body may be seen (by non-mahrams) except this and these, (he pointed to his face and hands while saying so).” [Abu Dawud (confirmed authentic by Albani)].

There are many other narrations and ayahs related to hijab and there is differentiation in the opinions of scholars regarding whether the niqab (veil covering the face) is compulsory. However, looking at this authentic hadith we can conclude that it is not.

The hijab is derived from the Qur’anic term ‘khimar’ which in basic terms means ‘to cover’. In the sense of hijab it is to cover the body with loose garments which hide the shape of the body.

We must understand that this is not merely for men to not feel enticed but as a symbol of Islam. When a muslim woman wears the hijab she is obeying and submitting to Allah. She is liberating herself from the vain desire to show off her beauty – it is a great test from Allah.

Allah also mentioned in Surah Nur:

“Tell the believing men to reduce [some] of their vision and guard their private parts. That is purer for them. Indeed, Allah is Acquainted with what they do.” 24:30

You will notice that Allah mentioned this first before the previous Ayah above talking about the women covering. This means that men are responsible for lowering their gaze whether or not the women are covered. It also breaks any link between the two aspects.

Shaytan’s plot against humankind is to reveal our coverings – lesson derived from the story of Adam:

We must take heed of these lessons as the prophet (ﷺ) mentioned: “There will be women who will be dressed but they will be naked.” [Muslim]

The explanation of this hadith is that this group of women will be wearing tight or transparent clothing revealing the shape of their bodies. He mentioned (ﷺ) that these people will not even smell the scent of jannah. Let us not be part of this.

Men

The men’s ‘hijab’ is something many do not talk about in our time. We see many males referring to women as deviant due to their dress code yet they themselves are not complying with the laws set for men.

There are many narrations and guidelines for how a man is to dress and carry themselves. The first thing we should tackle is the issue of the beard. For those of us who are confused as to what the ruling is in Islam regarding facial hair the scholars are in agreement when it comes to shaving being prohibited.

A man is not to remove the beard as mentioned in the hadith, the prophet (ﷺ) said: “Trim (your) moustaches and lengthen/grow (your) beards.” [Muslim].

Scholars of hadith only differ as to whether the narration means leave the beard to grow continually or not as there is no hadith regarding the length of the prophet’s (ﷺ) beard.

However, the strongest opinion backed up by what the great companions of the prophet (ﷺ) used to do is to cut any hair more than a fist’s length: “Ibn Umar used to, if he performed Hajj or Umrah hold his beard in a fist and cut whatever was extra. [Bukhari]. Abu Zura’a bin Jareer said: “Abu Hurairah would take a hold of his beard, and whatever was under his fist he would cut it.”

There are specific hairstyles for men which are also prohibited in Islam – namely “al-qaza'” which is shaving part of the head and leaving other parts. In our time the hairstyle is known as the fade or mohawk. It was narrated from Ibn ‘Umar that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) forbade al-qaza’. This should not be taken lightly.

Moving further into the man’s hijab comes what is known in islam as ‘isbal’ which is wearing trousers that go below the ankles. There are many hadiths on this matter.

The prophet (ﷺ) said: “Whatever of the izaar (lower garment) is below the ankles is in the Fire.” [Bukhari]

“There are three whom Allaah will not look at or praise on the Day of Judgement and theirs will be a painful punishment: the one who wears his garment below his ankles, the one who reminds others of his favours, and the one who sells his product by means of making false oaths” [Muslim] 

“Isbal may apply to the izaar (lower garment), the shirt or the turban. Whoever allows any part of these to trail on the ground out of arrogance, Allah will not look at him on the Day of Judgement.” [Abu Dawud]

“Allaah will not look at the one who wears his lower garment below his ankles.” [Ibn Abaas]

“The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) took hold of the muscle of my calf (or his calf) and said, This is where the izaar should stop; if you insist, it may be lower, but it should not reach the ankles.” [Tirmidhi]

“Allaah will not look at the one who trails his izaar on the ground out of pride.” [Bukhari]

These narrations make the matter of isbal very clear and the exact worldly reason is not spoken of but we must realise that Allah is all-knowing and all-wise.

Men must also follow the rules regarding the ‘awrah’ which refers to the private areas which must be covered. These are explained by the prophet (ﷺ) who mentioned:

“The ‘awrah of the believing man is what is between his navel and his knees.” [Abu Sa’id Al-Khudri]

This is something many of the Muslim men forget especially when going to the beach or swimming pool. The navel must be covered along with the thighs and knees.

Conclusion

We must understand as Muslims that hijab is more than just the way we dress – it is how we carry ourselves and our conduct. It is a day to day responsibility for us all. The only way we can ensure that we are following the correct path is to follow Allah’s perfect example – His messenger Muhammad (ﷺ).

Allah knows best.

What does Islam teach about zina?

بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ

Zina (fornication) has become so widespread and such a norm in modern society. Even the slightest hint of shamelessness has become so rare that anyone deemed shy or unwilling to perform such acts is mocked especially within the youth. This is both in the West and the Muslim world which is simply an atrocity for our deen.

Let us first understand the term as many of us have the misconception that zina merely means intercourse between a non-married couple. This is the first mistake we make especially the young brothers and sisters. Zina begins with the eyes as mentioned by the prophet of Allah () :

“The eye commits zina, and the palm of the hand, the foot, the body, the tongue and private part of the body confirm it or deny it.” [Bukhari]

This highlights the importance of lowering the gaze. Stop looking at the opposite gender. Stop watching those videos on your phone. Stop looking at that girl’s/guy’s Instagram page and Snapchat.

We put this alongside the word of Allah:

“And do not kill your children for fear of poverty. We provide for them and for you. Indeed, their killing is ever a great sin.” 17:31

“And do not go near unlawful sexual intercourse. Indeed, it is ever an immorality and is evil as a way.” 17:32

“And do not kill the soul which Allah has forbidden, except by right.” 17:33

What we can derive from these ayahs is that Allah forbade going NEAR zina let alone the act itself. This was paired with ayahs before and after talking about murder.

Being alone with a non-mahram is one of the first steps towards zina. This includes private conversations whether this is in person or on the phone/texting. The prophet (ﷺ) said: “Whenever a man is alone with a woman the shaytan makes a third”.

 

Let us all repent to Allah and stay away from one of the biggest sins in Islam. Our meeting with the creator can come at any time, any age and anywhere. The fact that we are still in this dunya is a blessing. Allah has given us the time to turn back to Him and let us take the opportunity before it’s too late.

Allah knows best.

What is Istikhara and how is it performed?

بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ

Istikhara is for the Muslim who is making a decision in life and is seeking Allah’s guidance. Allah alone knows what is best for us, and there may be good in what we perceive as bad, and bad in what we perceive as good.

We make the mistake in assuming that istikhara is a way to simply leave the decision altogether. We must understand that one is to have a decision in mind already, then seek Allah’s guidance.

The correct way to perform istikhara:

  1. Make the intention for istikhara.
  2. Pray 2 rak’at.
  3. Recite the following after the prayer:

اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْتَخِيرُكَ بِعِلْمِكَ وَأَسْتَقْدِرُكَ بِقُدْرَتِكَ وَأَسْأَلُكَ مِنْ فَضْلِكَ الْعَظِيمِ فَإِنَّكَ تَقْدِرُ وَلَا أَقْدِرُ وَتَعْلَمُ وَلَا أَعْلَمُ وَأَنْتَ عَلَّامُ الْغُيُوبِ اللَّهُمَّ إِنْ كُنْتَ تَعْلَمُ أَنَّ هَذَا الْأَمْرَ خَيْرٌ لِي فِي دِينِي وَمَعَاشِي وَعَاقِبَةِ أَمْرِي فَاقْدُرْهُ لِي وَيَسِّرْهُ لِي ثُمَّ بَارِكْ لِي فِيهِ وَإِنْ كُنْتَ تَعْلَمُ أَنَّ هَذَا الْأَمْرَ شَرٌّ فِي دِينِي وَمَعَاشِي وَعَاقِبَةِ أَمْرِي فَاصْرِفْهُ عَنِّي وَاصْرِفْنِي عَنْهُ وَاقْدُرْ لِيَ الْخَيْرَ حَيْثُ كَانَ ثُمَّ ارْضِنِي بِهِ

‘Allahumma inni astakhiruka bi’ilmika, Wa astaqdiruka bi-qudratika, Wa as’alaka min fadlika al-‘azlm Fa-innaka taqdiru Wala aqdiru, Wa ta’lamu Wala a’lamu, Wa anta ‘allamu l-ghuyub. Allahumma, in kunta ta’lam anna hathal-amra Khairun li fi dini wa ma’ashi wa’aqibati amri (or ‘ajili amri wa’ajilihi) Faqdirhu wa yas-sirhu li thumma barik li Fihi, Wa in kunta ta’lamu anna hadha-lamra shar-run li fi dini wa ma’ashi wa’aqibati amri (or fi’ajili amri wa ajilihi) Fasrifhu anni was-rifni anhu. Waqdir li al-khaira haithu kana Thumma ardini bihi.’

(O Allah! I ask guidance from Your knowledge, And Power from Your Might and I ask for Your great blessings. You are capable and I am not. You know and I do not and You know the unseen. O Allah, if You know that this matter is good for my religion and my subsistence and in my Hereafter then You ordain it for me and make it easy for me to get, And then bless me in it, and if You know that this job is harmful to me In my religion and subsistence and in the Hereafter then keep it away from me and let me be away from it. And ordain for me whatever is good for me, And make me satisfied with it). The Prophet added that then the person should name (mention) his need.

When making the dua, the actual matter or decision should be mentioned instead of the words “hathal-amra” highlighted above (“this matter” ). [Bukhari]

We must also understand that istikhara is not simply answered through dreams and feelings but more on how Allah facilitates and unfolds events in our lives after we genuinely try to do what is best.

One will notice that doors will open towards the matter in question if Allah sees goodness in it and also doors close if Allah deems that there is no good for the person. We must have faith in Allah to show us the way in order for istikhara to work.

Let us remember:

“And will provide for him from where he does not expect. And whoever relies upon Allah – then He is sufficient for him. Indeed, Allah will accomplish His purpose. Allah has already set for everything a [decreed] extent.” 65:3

Allah knows best.

What does Islam say about music?

بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ

Let us begin with 2 ayahs from the Qur’an:

“And there are among men, those that purchase idle talk (i.e. music, singing), to mislead (men) from the path of Allah and throw ridicule. For such there will be a humiliating punishment” 31:6

“[Allaah said to Iblees:] And befool them gradually those whom you can among them with your voice (i.e. songs, music, and any other call for Allah’s disobedience)…” 17:64

Ibn Abbas (one of the earliest scholars in Islam) mentioned that these Ayahs referred to music. It is very clear in our religion and there is good reason for this. The first of which is the fact that modern music is filthy. If we merely look at the lyrics of over 90% of music nowadays it is filled with talks about zina, objectifying women, drug use and foul language towards others.

How was music introduced?

The music will subconsciously effect one’s persona. It stimulates certain emotions depending on the melody and lyrics which causes one to not have full control over one’s feelings – it clouds the mind. Just as we guard our eyes, tongues and limbs from haram, we must also guard our ears as they will also effect our spirituality.

An authentic hadith:

From among my followers there will be some people who will consider illegal sexual intercourse, the wearing of silk, the drinking of alcoholic drinks and the use of musical instruments, as lawful. [Bukhari]

We must take heed of this narration as it clearly mentions the prohibition of musical instruments alongside zina and alcohol which are major sins in Islam. We do not want to be in this category.

Remember, there is no space for both music and Qur’an in the heart, we must choose one or the other.

Allah knows best.

Why do we pray?

بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ

Many of us in our time have this question roaming around in our minds causing our curiosity to overwhelm us. It seems that many are given an answer to this which approaches the question from the wrong angle:

  • You will go to hell if you do not pray.

This is not how Islam should be portrayed even to the young who are simply looking for answers. We begin by quoting from the book of Allah:

“Certainly will the believers have succeeded: They who are during their prayer humbly submissive” 23:1, 23:2

The introduction to Surah Al-Muminoon gives us the first attribute of a true believer and that is the prayer. Not only those who pray, but those who pray with submission. A lot of us these days perform the actions of prayer yet our minds are floating elsewhere. Allah mentioned this first as a sign to the people that the first step towards becoming a mu’min (believer) is with the Salah.

Unlike any other religion our prayer is unique and performed 5 times a day and there are multiple reasons for this. First off we are sinners. We sin day and night. Allah prescribed the Salah as a way of forgiveness and mercy:

  • The Salah itself is a forgiveness of sins as mentioned in the authentic narration: “The five daily prayers and Jumu’ah to Jumu’ah is an expiation of the sins committed between those times so long as one is not guilty of major sins.” [Bukhari]
  • Wudu’ is an expiation of sins as the prophet of Allah (ﷺ) mentioned: “When the Muslim or the mu’min (believer) makes wudu’, when he washes his face, every sin that his eyes has committed wash away with the water or with the last drop of water. When he washes his hands, every sin his hand has committed is washed away. When he washes his feet, every sin that his feet walked towards is washed away with the last drop of water until he comes out of making wudu’ free of sin.” [Muslim]
  • If you pray in the mosque, even walking to the house of Allah and sitting waiting for the prayer wipes away sins as mentioned by prophet of Allah (ﷺ): “Whoever makes wudu’ at home and then walks to the House of Allah to perform one of the five prayers, every step he takes wipes away a sin and the next step raises his status with Allah.” [Muslim], “The angels keep on asking Allāh’s forgiveness for anyone of you, as long as he is at his Musalla (praying place) and he does not pass wind. They say, ‘O Allah! Forgive him, O Allah! be Merciful to him.” [Bukhari]
  • Saying ameen after Surah Al Fatihah forgives sins: “When the imām says ameen (after Surah Fatihah), say ‘ameen’ because if you say ‘ameen’ at the same time the angels say ‘ameen,’ then all of your sins you have committed are wiped away.” [Bukhari, Muslim]
  • Every time you make Ruku’ or Sujud (prostration), your sins fall away: “When the worshipper stands up in prayer, all his sins are brought and placed upon his head and shoulders, so whenever he bows and prostrates, they fall from him.” [Bahyaqi, Tabaraani, authenticated by Al-AlBaanee (scholar of Islam)]
  • Angels pray for your forgiveness after every prayer: “The angels will pray for you as long as you are in the same position that you just prayed in and don’t break your wudu’. The angels say, ‘O Allāh forgive him. O Allāh have mercy on him.'” [Bukhari]

These are a few narrations on how Salah erases our sins. Prayer is also how we abstain from evil in this world. Allah mentions:

“Indeed, prayer prohibits immorality and wrongdoing, and the remembrance of Allah is greater.” 29:45

In order to stay away from the temptations of this world Allah equipped us with a defence strategy and that is the Salah. If one finds oneself sinning uncontrollably then one needs to look into the quality of their prayer. If our prayers are flawed then our lives will be flawed.

This is an introduction into the Salah that Allah prescribed to us. Many of us see it as a chore when it is more of a gift and mercy. We must treat it as such in order to gain the most benefit from it and also to protect ourselves in this life and the next because the prophet of Allah (ﷺ) also mentioned as a warning to those who do not pray:

“Verily, between a man and idolatry and disbelief is abandoning the prayer.” [Muslim]

Let us all take that into consideration and think about all the above points when it is time to pray.

Allah knows best.