Cherry picking in Islam

بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ

Allah says in the Qur’an:

And judge, [O Muhammad], between them by what Allah has revealed and do not follow their inclinations and beware of them, lest they tempt you away from some of what Allah has revealed to you. And if they turn away – then know that Allah only intends to afflict them with some of their [own] sins. And indeed, many among the people are corrupt.

[5:49]

In this ayah, Allah orders the prophet (ﷺ) to judge by which Allah has sent down and He warns him not follow the whims of those who have come to him for knowledge. What does this mean exactly?

People simply want to take the word of Allah but use their feelings to bend Allah’s laws to their whims, to fit what is comfortable for them. For these individuals it makes their feelings are above the word of Allah.

This is not to say that Islam does not care about people’s feelings. There are many occasions in the Qur’an where Allah send down revelation to sooth the hearts of the believers.

The job of the shaytan is essentially to take everything beautiful and make it ugly, while taking that which is ugly and making it beautiful and we see it around us today. Islamic clothing is an example; in most of the West, the khimar is looked down upon while wearing revealing clothes is the norm.

The deen of Allah came to protect us from the harm we can do to ourselves. Take children for example – they have uncontrollable desires. There could be a child that wants ice-cream all the time – if the parents fulfils their desire, it would harm them.

Just like children, human beings in general can act like they care about only what they want to do – “let me be happy”. When we do that we cause harm to ourselves. What Allah is saying is that our feelings could be the biggest danger to ourselves. He says:

But as for he who feared the position of his Lord and prevented the soul from [unlawful] inclination,

[79:40]


Allah talks of those who stop their whims from dictating their actions. So when Allah tells the prophet (ﷺ) to not bend His judgement to the people’s feelings, He is basically telling him that the people’s feeling are already taken into consideration; after all, Allah created us.

What is best for the human being is already there even if they may not subjectively like it. He knows what is better for us since He knows us personally better than we know ourselves. Allah says:

Say, “Would you acquaint Allah with your religion while Allah knows whatever is in the heavens and whatever is on the earth, and Allah is Knowing of all things?”

[49:16]

Sometimes we hear something Allah wants us to do or stay away from and our immediate response is a counter – “it doesn’t feel like it’s good for me” or “it’s too constricting”.

So Allah talks about the people’s whims then He warns the prophet to watch out for them, to be careful of the ones who ask him – why?

They come with the mentality that “we want this religion to fit in with the majority’s opinion”. They want to interpret it differently to fit into their own comfort zone.

Then the warning comes: “they might put you into trial through some of Allah’s revelation”. In other words, they might start picking and choosing – this is the fitna caused by many people and we see it everywhere today.

People pick and choose which parts of the Qur’an and Sunnah are comfortable to follow, then proceed to bend other parts. We essentially become consumers in the deen, choosing what we want out of Islam just as we choose what to purchase from the market.

Then people come up with the greatest scam – we will ignore the word of Allah when it comes to certain halal or haram, but we will go to Umrah every year, or we will donate some money to charity etc. This is merely to satisfy their conscience – “at least I am doing something for islam” – while at the same we ignore the core aspects of the religion. Allah says:

If you avoid the major sins which you are forbidden, We will remove from you your lesser sins and admit you to a noble entrance [into Paradise].

[4:31]

Instead of following Allah’s notion in this ayah, we do the smaller good deeds while holding on to major sins. Then we say, at least we’re doing these good things, Allah will forgive those other major sins – this is the great lie we tell ourselves.

We do not decide what the priorities are in Islam. This attitude redefines what the religion is – the fact that Allah is the master and we are the slaves and we submit our wills to Him. He decides what is halal and haram – we do not make this decision on our own terms.

So what is the consequence if we hold this corrupted approach?

Allah says that He intends to strike these people with calamity because of some of the sins they commit. Meaning that this is not something that only affects someone in the next life – there will be problems coming our way in this dunya when we knowingly compromise Allah’s words.

These problems can come in any form – a “mousiba” (calamity) is not just a physical issue like death or illness, but emotional too. Meaning it could be depression, anxiety, not being able to sleep, never feeling content in life etc. Then we look into medicine and therapy and other forms for a cure which is perfectly reasonable in Islam to do, but if Allah takes away the peace in our hearts because we keep disobeying Him, only He can put it back.

It is He who sent down tranquillity into the hearts of the believers that they would increase in faith along with their [present] faith…

[48:4]

He sent His own tranquillity upon the hearts of the believers so the peace will only come when we tell ourselves that we are not going to play with His words anymore.

We must acknowledge our attitude towards Allah’s word and fix the mentality we have towards His rulings.

We must take what He has given us sincerely and leave that which He has made forbidden for us.

Allah ends by stating that many human beings are corrupt, He mentions “nas”. This is to tell us that this is not a specific group of people but humanity as a whole. Human beings tend to know something is wrong but they want to do it anyway.

Allah then asks a rhetorical question in the next ayah, which we must ponder over ourselves.

Then is it the judgement of [the time of] ignorance they desire? But who is better than Allah in judgement for a people who are certain [in faith].

[5:50]

“Jahl” has a few descriptions; one of the meanings is the inability to control ones whims and feelings – whatever it is that people of jahl feel, they just follow it – to be impulsive.

So are we following the jahileen? Or are we following the best of judgements which is Allah’s word?

It is one or the other brothers and sisters.

May Allah make us of those who truly follow His way.

Allah knows best.

Allah is with the ill and the poor

بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ

Allah Almighty will say on the Day of Resurrection: O son of Adam, I was sick but you did not visit me. He will say: My Lord, how can I visit you when you are the Lord of the worlds? Allah will say: Did you not know that my servant was sick and you did not visit him, and had you visited him you would have found me with him?

O son of Adam, I asked you for food but you did not feed me. He will say: My Lord, how can I feed you when you are the Lord of the worlds? Allah will say: Did you not know that my servant asked you for food but you did not feed him, and had you fed him you would have found me with him?

O son of Adam, I asked you for drink but you did not provide for me. He will say: My Lord, how can I give you drink when you are the Lord of the worlds? Allah will say: My servant asked you for a drink but you did not provide for him, and had you given it to him you would have found me with him.” [Muslim]

This is a short reminder for those who fear of the mercy of Allah due to poverty or illness. Allah has not neglected those who are ill or suffering financially – in fact He is closer to them than others.

We must remind ourselves of Allah’s love towards His people. Umm al-Ala reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, visited me when I was sick, and he said, “Be cheerful, O mother of al-Ala. When a Muslim is sick, Allah takes away his sins just as fire takes away impurities in gold and silver.” [Abu Dawud authenticated by Al Albaani]

The most beloved person to Allah himself was in poverty, Aisha reported: “We in the household of Muhammad, peace and blessings be upon him, used to live for a whole month without cooking anything over a fire. We would have nothing to eat but dates and water.” [Muslim]

Take illness and poverty as a blessing for the afterlife. If we are inflicted with it ourselves we must remember that Allah is with us. If it is inflicted on others we must take it as an opportunity to help them and gain some good deeds along the way.

May Allah help those in poverty and heal all those who are suffering of any illness.

Allah knows best.

Materialism vs Blessing

Allah says in the Qur’an:

So when they forgot that by which they had been reminded, We opened to them the doors of every [good] thing until, when they rejoiced in that which they were given, We seized them suddenly, and they were [then] in despair.

[6:44]

Allah reminds us in Surat Al An’am of an example He made of the nations that came before us. He explains before this ayah that they were trialled with hardships and tribulations so that they may be humbled towards Allah. This in itself is a lesson to all of us that the purpose of trial is not for us to despair but for us to get closer to Him.

The focus here though is that when these nations failed the tribulations by hardening their hearts and chasing their desires Allah opened all doors to the dunya. Once everything came to them it was either taken away in this world or their lives were taken away.

How many people have we heard about in our time that were millionaires and ended up with nothing or committed suicide? Most of these people got their wealth from haram means and you will find the majority were ungrateful to Allah; disbelief is merely an elevated state of ungratefulness.

Furthermore, how many examples have we seen of popular people that ended up passing away at the peak of their career? They were given everything in this world – the fame, the money, the following – yet none of it helped them in the end or the afterlife.

Even with the whole dunya given to them, throughout their lives you will still find them miserable.

So with hardship we as Muslims must understand that it is a temporary test from Allah; as He says:

And We will surely test you with something of fear and hunger and a loss of wealth and lives and fruits, but give good tidings to the patient,

[2:155]

Just because we see others who are far from Allah gain in wealth does not mean that they are on the path of success – which brings us to the notion of baraka.

When we are given baraka – which is essentially the attachment of divine goodness from Allah – then any form of wealth we have will bring us so much more good in our lives. On top of that we will be rewarded further by Allah in the afterlife for spending as Muslims through that which is halal.

If the baraka is removed you will find that nothing satisfies the heart. Nothing we buy is enough, we will just keep wanting more and more.

Why is suicide more common among celebrities, CEO’s and creatives? Why are there corrupt billionaires in the world still stealing from others? The wealth they already own cannot be spent in 10 lifetimes yet they still chase more and are given more, until one day it will end; the day when the only thing that matters are their actions.

If we take any lesson from this, it is that we should not look at those who seem to have everything in the dunya although they are far from Allah and wish to chase what they have. Most of what we see in these people is through social media which is merely deception. What people show on these platforms is not real; at the end of the day, real satisfaction and happiness is in the heart and the hearts of others cannot be seen.

We must dig into our own hearts and remind ourselves of this beautiful ayah:

Those who have believed and whose hearts are assured by the remembrance of Allah . Unquestionably, by the remembrance of Allah hearts are assured.”

[13:28]

Allah knows best.

Blindly following

بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ

Blind following has been an issue throughout the ages. There are many places in the Qur’an that mention different nations and this mentality towards the religion. Allah highlights where blind following can lead:

Say, “Not equal are the evil and the good, although the abundance of evil might impress you.” So fear Allah, O you of understanding, that you may be successful.

[5:100]

We can see around us that many practices in and out of Islam are a result of being deceived by the number of people that carry them out. People tend to see the majority performing an action and suddenly it becomes the right thing to do. There are many stories in history pertaining to this, one that comes to mind is of a practice that was done in North Africa.

It all started with one person who decided one day that he was going to visit a random man’s grave who apparently was a Muslim scholar and make tawaf (circumambulate) around it. It then became a habit of his, every time he was going through the area he would do the tawaf then continue his journey.

Others from the village then blindly followed without knowing what they were doing or why, until it became widespread. After a while someone decided to dig up the grave and it turned out that not only were the people committing a form of treachery against Allah by doing tawaf around a grave but that the grave belonged to a dog.

Allah teaches us in this ayah that no matter how abundant or widespread an act might be, evil will always be evil. He teaches us that we must be weary of the fact that when bad things come in plenty they may not look so bad – people get desensitised to them. This is why keeping the religion in its pure form is so important.

Sometimes we include cultural practices within Islam which are variations in what the religion teaches us. These variations become so common and widespread that everyone in that culture starts doing it, to the point when the only proof as to why they do it is simply “everybody does it” – this becomes the only line of reasoning.

“Although the abundance of evil may impress you” – meaning simply that these people just follow everybody else.

Allah then adds beautifully: “So fear Allah, O you of understanding, that you may be successful” – those of understanding are those who are clear thinkers, unbiased people. These people do not take sides or blind follow for the sake of being part of the group. These are the people who do not cave into peer pressure, they think for themselves, they look at the proof not at the number of people who are carrying out the actions.

The surah continues:

O you who have believed, do not ask about things which, if they are shown to you, will distress you. But if you ask about them while the Qur’an is being revealed, they will be shown to you. Allah has pardoned that which is past; and Allah is Forgiving and Forbearing.

[5:101]

A conversation with the prophet (ﷺ) was narrated around the time this ayah was released. He said to the people: “O people, Allah has enjoined Hajj on you, so perform Hajj.” A man said: “Is it every year, O Messenger of Allah?” He remained silent until (the man) said it three times.

Then the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: “If I said yes it would be obligatory and you would not be able to do it.” Then he said: “Be content what I leave with you, for those who came before you were destroyed because they asked too many questions and argued with their Prophets. If I tell you to do something then do as much of it as you can, and if I tell you not to do something then abstain from it.” [Muslim]

A story in the Qur’an that pertains to this topic is of the cow in the 2nd surah when the Israelites were told by Musa to slaughter a cow. Slaughtering a cow was the only detail given but they kept asking for more and more details making their own lives more difficult, to the point where the description was so specific that only one cow fit. If they had followed the first commandment, it would have been any cow but due to their persistence their lives were made a lot more difficult.

This ayah is not talking about searching for answers in the religion like how to carry out certain actions or whether something is permissible but rather it’s about going too deep. There are certain aspects of life that Allah has left out, things that He has not told us about. For example most of what is in the unseen. We have very limited narrations of what the unseen is like and that is due to our limited minds. Just as our eyes and ears have limits as to what we can see and hear, our minds have a limit as to what we can think.

Allah has made very clear what we need to know in this life to succeed.

Another aspect that is in line with this teaching is the notion of asking about something with a preconceived idea that we have no intention of changing based on truth. For example – we want to know if some sort of act is haram or not. We read something of one renowned scholar talking about a hadith or ayah from the Qur’an or gives a fatwa based on a ruling that says it is in fact impermissible, we didn’t like reading it.

Thus we search and ask another scholar – who says the same thing. Then we ask a local imam who agrees with the scholars, none of this is what we want. Then we move on to ask a relative or friend who has no qualifications or barely a connection with Islam and says the act is perfectly fine or “not that bad”, and with this we conclude that there is a “difference of opinion”, therefore it cannot be finalised as haram.

If we are to ask about things let us be genuine with ourselves – whatever verdict Islam has to offer we accept. Sometimes we are given answers that we are sincerely not convinced of, that’s a separate issue. Sincerity as in we go in asking a question with the mindset that whatever convincing answer there is from the deen we will place our desires to the side and submit.

Then if when we get an answer we feel that it’s not enough, we search some more for a deeper understanding. Allah calls us “the people of understanding”, so if something is not being understood it should be looked into further, thus why real scholarship is so important especially with fiqh matters – for what is haram or halal we look into what the people of knowledge have to say.

This of course only comes with pure intentions and we all know if we are being genuine. Whenever we have pure intentions Allah will guide us to the correct understanding of His deen.

May Allah give us all a clear understanding of His deen and guide those who are blind followers.

Allah knows best.

The ayah in Friday khutbahs

بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ

Allah says in the Qur’an:

Indeed, Allah orders justice and good conduct and giving to relatives and forbids immorality and bad conduct and rebellion. He admonishes you that perhaps you will be reminded.

[16:90]

This ayah is commonly mentioned when concluding the khutbah on Fridays yet for the most part it is usually just used as a cue to get up for prayer and the true essence of the beautiful ayah is lost. Let us explore what Allah is really telling us.

There are 3 things Allah orders us to stick with, along with 3 things we need to avoid.

He first commands justice and excellence. Justice is the bare minimum expected of any human being, Muslim or non-Muslim. When a person lives by justice it’s not necessarily an accomplishment – it just means they’re not a criminal. He then tells us to excel past that towards excellence. Both are mentioned which covers the entire spectrum of good deeds, big and small.

After this, Allah refers to giving to relatives. Interestingly, this act is part of justice towards the family – someone who gives towards relatives is performing an act of justice yet Allah says this separately. This tells us that there will be some people who simply cover their normal duties towards relatives and there will be those who go above and beyond – the people of excellence.

We usually associate justice with court cases or justice of country leaders upon their nations but Allah specifically mentions family. In Islam, justice starts with the relatives. There cannot be justice or excellence in a society unless it is first given to individual families. So the foundation of a society succeeding is the relationship between families and within families it starts on an individual level.

So what is the direct threat to this foundation?

Allah mentions “fahsha'” – shamelessness of which the worst form is zina. On one hand we have nikkah (marriage) – a structured concept of family, role and rights of man and woman, responsibilities towards spouse and children. Then the opposite is the chaotic concept – shamelessness – which destroys the family structure through obscenity.

Fahsha’ covers all types of shamelessness or obscenity. It could be obscene speech, obscene movies, obscene friends etc. The difference between fahsha’ and “munkar” is that munkar is something that is mutually agreed to be evil such as stealing or murder. Allah warns us about both then mentions “baghyi” which translates to rebellion – when this is mentioned in the Qur’an, it usually means rebellion against Allah. It could be said that fahsha’ and munkar is or leads to rebellion against Allah.

The ayah ends with “ya’ithukoum la’alakoum tathakaroun” – Allah warns us so that we may remember; ironically most of us start getting up for prayer at this statement (for those who were asleep throughout the lecture wake up from their nap). Interestingly Allah says “perhaps” we may remember through these warnings meaning it will take effort from us to take advantage of this reminder, it won’t just happen.

The few words in this verse are the essence of the entire range of Islamic teachings thus why many khateebs mention this verse in the Friday gatherings. It is for us to take this reminder and work on it every day of our lives in order for us to succeed.

May Allah make us of those who are just, those who excel in Islam and in our families while staying away from shameful acts, evil deeds and rebellion against Him.

Allah knows best.

The last to enter Jannah

بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ

Narrated by Ibn Mas’ud: Verily the Messenger of Allah said: The last to enter Paradise would be a man who would walk once and stumble once and be burnt by the Fire once. Then when he gets beyond it, he will turn to it and say: Blessed is He Who has saved me from thee. Allah has given me something He has not given to any one of those in earlier or later times.

Then a tree would be raised up for him and he will say: O my Lord I bring me near this tree so that I may take shelter in its shade and drink of its water.

Allah, the Exalted and Great, would say: O son of Adam, if I grant you this, you will ask Me for something else. He would say: No. my Lord. And he would promise Him that he would not ask for anything else. His Lord would excuse him because He sees what he cannot help desiring; so He would bring him near it, and he would take shelter in its shade and drink of its water.

Afterwards a tree more beautiful than the first would be raised up before him and he would say: O my Lord! bring me near this tree in order that I may drink of its water and take shelter in its shade and I shall not ask Thee for anything else. He (Allah) would say: O son of Adam, if I bring you near it you may ask me for something else. He would promise Him that he would not ask for anything else. His Lord will excuse him because He would see something he cannot help desiring. So He would bring him near it and he would enjoy its shade and drink its water.

Then a tree would be raised up for him at the gate of the Paradise, more beautiful than the first two. He would say: O my Lord! bring me near this (tree) so that I may enjoy its shade and drink from its water. I shall not ask Thee for anything else. He (Allah) would say: O son of Adam! did you not promise Me that you would not ask Me anything else? He would say: Yes, my Lord, but I shall not ask Thee for anything else. His Lord would excuse him for He sees something the temptation of which he could not resist. He (Allah) would bring him near to it, and when He would bring him near it he would hear the voices of the inhabitants of the Paradise.

He would say: O my Lord! admit me to it. He (Allah) would say: O son of Adam, what will bring an end to your requests to Me? Will it please you if I give you the whole world and a like one along with it? He will say: O my Lord! Are you mocking at me, though you are the Lord of the worlds?

Ibn Mas’ud laughed and asked (the hearers): Why don’t you ask me what I am laughing at. They (then) said: Why do you laugh? He said: It is in this way that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) laughed. They (the companions of the Holy Prophet) asked: Why do you laugh. Messenger of Allah?

He said: On account of the laugh of the Lord of the universe, when he (desirer of Paradise) says ‘are you mocking me though you are the Lord of the worlds?

Allah would say: I am not mocking at you, but I have power to do whatever I will. [Muslim]

In another narration: When Allah would laugh at him, He would say: Enter the Paradise. When he would enter, Allah would say: State your wish. He would express his wishes till Allah would remind him (the desire of) such and such (things).

When his desires would be exhausted Allah would say: That is for thee and, besides it, the like of it also.

‘Ata’ b. Yazid said: Abu Sa’id al-Khudri was with Abu Huraira and be did not reject anything from the hadith narrated by him, but when Abu Huraira narrated:” Allah said to that man; and its like along with it,” Abu Sa’id said:” Ten like it along with it,” O Abu Huraira.

Abu Huraira said: I do not remember except the words:” That is for you and a similar one along with it.”

Abu Sa’id said: I bear witness to the fact that I remembered from the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) his words:” That is for thee and ten like it.”

Abu Huraira said: That man was the last of those deserving of Paradise to enter Paradise. [Muslim]

What we can take from this is that the last person to deserve paradise is given such amenities let alone all the beauty that comes with paradise. One of the best gifts the people of Jannah will be given is the removal of “ghill” from the hearts – which is any form of resentment, harsh or negative feelings or bad feelings, any type of depression or sadness. That in itself is paradise for the human being, let alone what Allah has planned.

The Prophet (ﷺ) said, “Allah said, “I have prepared for My righteous slaves (such excellent things) as no eye has ever seen, nor an ear has ever heard nor a human heart can ever think of.’ “ [Bukhari]

May Allah grant us Jannah.

Allah knows best.